tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19705400.post688198278313253147..comments2023-08-07T08:19:03.097-05:00Comments on ADOPTION AND ITS FOOTSTOOL: LDS HURTS ANOTHER FATHERAmyadopteehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10954658047614318238noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19705400.post-80792949783007176742008-11-08T14:08:00.000-06:002008-11-08T14:08:00.000-06:00Anon,I can easily blame LDS Family Services becaus...Anon,<BR/><BR/>I can easily blame LDS Family Services because they are the ones that encourage the mothers to hide and jump states. I know this to be true in a majority of cases involving fathers. They intentionally hide the information from the fathers. Just google Shawn McDonald. In his case, they got slammed with a complaint against them by the father. It is on their record here in Texas. They intentionally kept his child from him. The agency was fined $100,000 in court costs on the part of the father which they paid. He also won his tort lawsuit against them of $650,000. They asked him to drop his appeal but he did not. They use these laws to intentionally hide information from fathers. I blame them with the fury of an angry adoptee.Amyadopteehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10954658047614318238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19705400.post-51119646112210766612008-11-07T20:24:00.000-06:002008-11-07T20:24:00.000-06:00This is SO ridiculous and I am SO sick of it. Chil...This is SO ridiculous and I am SO sick of it. Children need to BE WITH THEIR REAL PARENTS. And America doesn't need some psychotic religion that says Real Parents don't exist and only Adopted Parents do. This freedom of religion crap has gone way, way, to far in this country. No one has right to rip familiies apart because of some relgion. No one has a right to hurt Fathers, Mothers or children either, due to (whacko) religious beliefs. It is time we demand laws and petition the hell out of the government that no religion that destroys the family unit has legal rights to do so. We need to create laws for Fathers BEFORE their child's birth to protect them from the scamming Adoption Agencies pull on them, because no women has a right to hurt her child either through Adoption to hurt her child's Father. No women either, has the right to hurt the man who impregnated her like this either. God, babies, aren't war tools-Grow up. No group of people deserve the right to ruin other people's lives either because of some self appointed freedoms that cost others their God given freedom and right to keep their own children. Being raised by your single Dad is much more healthy too, then pretending you came from barren people, because the latter is pyschotic at worst and mocking at best. Thanks for this story Amy.The Improper Adopteehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04460201280334904431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19705400.post-49226652450593274262008-11-07T09:33:00.000-06:002008-11-07T09:33:00.000-06:00I don't understand how you can blame this on LDS F...I don't understand how you can blame this on LDS Family services. They council with the birth mothers to help them through a tough choice. There efforts are to support them in whatever choice they make, not make it for them. They can't force them to do anything just council with them. They can explain the laws to them, which your stating correctly in your explanation. It sounds like the headline should be "Health and Welfare employee misguides birth father - who loses is rights." The fight should be with the state to change the law not pointing fingers at a agency that can only follow the laws.<BR/><BR/>Put the blame where it obviously belongs. Don't try to change the story to fit an agenda.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com