Saturday, March 03, 2007

WHAT SHOULD I DO????

I am asking for my readers' honest opinions on this one. I have an opportunity. After my last experience with a CI, I am unsure about it. Just when I think that I am going to do it. I then change my mind again. I go back and forth. After realizing that I got screwed with another CI, I am reluctant to do this process again.

3 comments:

Ungrateful Little Bastard said...

I'm wary and distrusting of CI's for numerous reasons. I guess for me it would be a combination of variables, such as is this my only option at this point, or my gut instinct after meeting with the person to see what type of adoption vibe I got from them. But then I'd probably wind up doubting my own instinct. It's a really hard one. Which way are you leaning right now?

AMYADOPTEE said...

I am leaning with not doing it. I keep hoping that the laws will change in the state of Indiana. I so hate bowing down to another individual because they own my information. I did the CI thing once already but it was not a court appointed thing. She calls herself an adoption search specialist (A.S.S.). I still laugh over that one.

Ungrateful Little Bastard said...

A.S.S........... so so priceless. And if she works with older kids who were adopted she can be a Juvenile Adoptee Confidential Kid Appointed Search Specialist

I just can't stand the fact that someone else can see YOUR stuff