ASSUMPTIONS

You know what happens when you assume? You make an ass out of you and me. I have desperately tried to keep a low profile for the sake of the protest and those involved in the adoptee rights protest. Its not DAR. It is the adoptee right protest. That has irked me from the get go. BASTARD NATION MEMBERS remember this could happen to you. I am a member on Bastard Nation as well as the legislative committee.

Sabina and Marley have both been slinging alot of mud at me, the adoptee rights protest and others. I REPEAT. I DID NOT SEND ANY EMAILS FROM A PRIVATE LIST TO A THIRD PARTY unlike Sabina who has posted it to her blog and Marley who has been directing everyone to her blog. I did however tell the director of an agency that there were issues that I did not fully understand with the donation. That is no longer an issue and it has been resolved. How its been resolved is no one else's business by the adoptee rights organizer. Its her name that is on the paperwork.

What Marley and Sabina would have you believe is that I was working undercover for the adoption industry, namely one agency. I have explained in detail to even Ron in an email. I HELPED A COUPLE OF THE BOARD MEMBERS OF THE AGENCY SEARCH FOR THEIR FAMILY. SOMETHING I DO FOR EVERYONE IF I CAN HELP. I did not take any payment for such services. I refused payment. I am not on anyone's pay roll except for Pay Per Post. I search for others because I can't find on my own. It gives me great joy to help others reunite. HOW DARE MARLEY AND SABINA DIRTY SOMETHING THAT WAS GIVEN TRUE OF HEART? IT WAS A NATURAL MOTHER THAT I HELP REUNITE WITH HER DAUGHTER. I HELPED AN ADOPTEE FIND THE CURRENT ADDRESS ON A SIBLING.

Here is the interesting part. Go to Bastard Nation's facebook. I dare you. The agency involved is on THEIR FRIEND'S LIST. On their facebook, they are asking for donations. There is nothing I mean nothing restricting an agency from donating to their organization.

Marley knew that the agency had donated to the protest all ready. This little cloak and dagger game that Marley and Sabina are playing is just that cloak and dagger with no substance to back it up. One day all of the emails will be published in chronological order.

The agency director didn't tell me about the facebook page until May 28th. I have the email to prove it. I mentioned that they were raising money for the protest. I didn't know the full details of what they were doing until May 29th when I actually looked at the facebook at the time I posted about it. I mentioned to the agency director that evening that there were some issues with the donation. I REPEAT I DID NOT SEND ANY EMAILS FROM ANY LIST TO THE DIRECTOR. If I did, Bastard Nation would really be in a heap of trouble. IF they aren't already. As far as I can see, Bastard Nation is slandering their name and my name. Who has case now? Even though Sabina is just a lifetime member, Marley has been directing folks to her blog. Marley is the executive chair to Bastard Nation. Sabina is also known to be Marley's best bud. Maybe Marley should be telling folks that she and Sabina are blasting everyone. They are taking information from a private board and posting about it. No one from that board has even posted on their blogs about it. Marley even went to the OriginsUSA activism list to get the mothers stirred up. They know her tactics and are not playing the game. They evidently knew that Marley didn't really like the mothers. I didn't know that until just recently.

You see I also have a sitemeter and statcounter at the end of this blog. I know that I am basically being stalked by both of these women. I do appreciate the traffic and the increasing of my stats. It makes me look good. I do have both of your ips. Marley hit my blog 13 times yesterday. Sabina has hit it at least 26 times in the last three days.

I have had it. I know that I won't be encouraging others to join Bastard Nation. Their leader likes to attack her own members. How many others will thinking the same thing by the time this protest is done. Bastard Nation pulled out on their own before the agency issue ever came up. That is the only reason why another member of the protest even brought the suspension of the protest to the board.

I have thought about this over and over in my head. Why would they sabotage this protest? Its not just me that they are hurting. They don't want to be the bad guy in this. So what if they don't have money? It happens to all of us. They figured that they would sling the negative mud first as to thwart all of this. Then when it looked like they would be the bad guys with members of the adoptee community, they took it elsewhere.

It was a first time experience for a few of us. Others of us had family issues. Bastard Nation had no money nor any organization. Those are the real reasons why this happened. They had already pulled out long before this discussion ever came up. We by the way have proof of that. All will come out in time.