Saturday, March 18, 2006

ADOPTION AS A WHOLE

We got a inch of rain over the night and yesterday. We really needed it. We have had too many fires over the last few months. Its not a good site to wake up and see a raging fire in the horizon. It is rather scary. The weather has got the horses feeling rather spry today. They are outside playing chase with each other. It is rather happy and peaceful to watch them chase each other. It takes my mind off the hate in this world but I know I must get back to it.

One of the comments left on yesterday's comments asked if I was retarded. Actually no I am not. I have read, researched and studied the information. Have you? Have you looked at all the information that is out there? Have you spoken with all sides of the triad? From your comment I don't think so or else you would not asked that question. I am not afraid to take stupid people on. I am willing to educate you so that you will understand what adoptees, birthparents, and adoptive parents have to face. If you read my entire blog and many others, you will see exactly what I am talking about. We are 12,000,000 strong. That is a lot to answer to. There is way too many opportunities for corrupt people to take advantage of those in the triad. Adoption agencies such as the Gladney foundation would like to corrupt and hurt all involved in the triad. They want to rob you of your house, your credit, your retirement, and your basic livelihood just so you could have a child. These very same people want to steal a baby from a woman who is poor. In fact this has been studied in the Alan Guttmacher research sites. I have read many of their research studies. If I have so can many other people. If a woman is poor, they push it down a woman's throat. That was simply stated in those reports. In fact it was a concern among most family planning clinics. They prey on a woman's desire to have a child to get more money. Again if I can find this information, so can many other people. In fact several other bloggers have found this and reported on it just as I have.

Our society doesn't believe in true family values. We need to get back to them. We need to promote keeping families together. Adoption should be regulated to where no one gets hurt and scarred. All the parties involved should be happy with the results. No one should be hurt. There should be no secrets in adoption. Everyone should know and acknowledge their truth. That way everyone heals and grows as a result. No adoptee should be restricted in knowing their truth. If every non adopted person in this country has their identity known within their family tree, so should an adoptee. Birthparents also should know their family tree to include their adopted children.

4 comments:

stacy said...

Totally agree with you. This is our right. I am in North Texas too. Went to school in Denton and now I'm in Carrollton. Love your posts, I'm learning a lot!

Manuela said...

Absolutely, sister!!! I am applauding what you say here... applauding....

suz said...

love your blog, amy. excellent points.

Pam said...

hey amy got on and read your blog, I acutally found it! You are a fighter and that is what I admire most in you.

Pam :)